I recently had a friend pay a compliment to my hair, here's how the conversation went...
Friend: Your hair looks very nice today, you must be growing it out!
Me: I don't know...I always keep it long.
Friend: Well maybe you're wearing it down and you usually wear it up?
Me: No, I always wear it down.
Friend: Hmmm...
Me: Well, I curled it today, and blow dried it and stuff.
Friend: That must be it! It looks nice.
Me: Thank you!
I think I should probably be mortified right??? At the time I was just feeling being honest, not difficult, but as I looked back on it, I thought I should have taken the compliment and been happy to receive it. It didn't need analyzing...
My goal will be to learn how to take a compliment and feel like I deserved it instead of feeling like I didn't...any suggestions on how to do that? :D
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